EPISODE 68: 3 Steps to Break Negativity Bias and Control Overeating

Jun 10, 2025

In this episode of the Outsmart Overeating podcast, we explore negativity bias, the brain’s tendency to focus on the negative over the positive, and how it affects your eating habits and weight loss journey.

 

Negativity bias leads us to focus on what could go wrong, often using disempowering phrases like “I can’t” instead of “I don’t,” which can sabotage our goals.

 

For example, negative thoughts like “I can’t stick to a diet” or “I’ll never lose weight” can undermine motivation and reinforce a belief that change isn't possible, so why even try?

 

To overcome this, we discuss three practical steps in this episode: 

 

1. Identify Negative Thoughts: Pay attention to automatic negative reactions, like doubting your ability to make healthier food choices. Simply observe these thoughts without judgment, perhaps writing them down to increase awareness.
2. Separate Thoughts from Feelings: Recognize that thoughts (e.g., “I shouldn’t eat this”) are distinct from emotions (e.g., guilt or fear). This separation helps you see thoughts as neutral ideas, not facts, preventing emotional eating driven by negativity.
3. Decide How to Handle Thoughts: Evaluate whether a negative thought is valid. Ask, “Is this true?” or “What if this goes well?” For instance, instead of thinking, “I’ll fail at this diet,” consider, “What if I succeed by making small, sustainable changes?” This reframing empowers better eating decisions.

 

By practicing these steps, you can rewire your brain to focus on positive possibilities, helping you make mindful food choices and progress toward your weight loss goals.

 

Start small, stay consistent, and take control of your mindset to outsmart overeating.

 

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